Neil Lyndon

Neil Alexander Lyndon (born Neil Alexander Barnacle; September 12, 1946)[1][2] is a British journalist and writer. He has written for The Sunday Times, The Times, The Independent, the Evening Standard the Daily Mail and the Telegraph

Neil Lyndon
Neil Alexander Barnacle

(1946-09-12) 12 September 1946 (age 73)
Alma materQueens' College, Cambridge
OccupationWriter and journalist
Years active1968 to present
Known forCritique of feminism
Notable work
No More Sex War: The Failures of Feminism
Spouse(s)Monica Foot m.1971 div.1976 Deirdre m.1977 div.1992
Linda Lyndon
Children2 daughters, 1 son, 1 step-son

Lyndon is known for his book No More Sex War: The Failures of Feminism (Sinclair-Stevenson 1992), which he claims was "the world's first egalitarian, progressive, non-sexist critique of feminism in its own terms".[3]

Early lifeEdit

Born in 1946, Lyndon grew up in the Sussex Weald,[4] a rural area and between 1958 and 1962 he attended Collyer's school, Horsham[5][6] In 1962 his father was bankrupted and sentenced to three years imprisonment for fraud and embezzlement, leaving the family short of money. Lyndon's mother then changed the family name to her maiden name and he moved to Gillingham School where he faced having to leave to get a job following completion of his O-levels due to the family's financial situation. Instead, his tutor Frank Hodgson paid the family money so Lyndon could complete his A-levels. Lyndon became head-boy and later set up the Frank Hodgson Trust for the school, providing similar financial support for sixth-form students. One of the ten houses at the school is also named after Lyndon.[7] As a teenager he was interested in progressive causes, he joined the Young Communist League[8] as well as the Campaign for Nuclear Disarmament.

According to a newspaper article written by Lyndon, he became, in 1965, the first student from a comprehensive school to be awarded an unconditional place at Cambridge University where he attended Queens' College.[9] At university he took a job in a scrap yard and later in light engineering.[10] He rapidly became involved with radical left-wing politics at Cambridge. He took part in many demonstrations and sit-ins and after his graduation he was a co-founder of The Shilling Paper, a radical weekly.[11] In 1969, he joined the editorial board of the underground paper The Black Dwarf.[12] Years later, in 2007 he wrote in The Sunday Times of his shame at how he had "once toasted mass murderers, torturers and totalitarian despots", particularly as he had distant relatives in Czechoslovakia.[13]


In the 1970s Lyndon worked in various divisions of the BBC, including for The Listener[14]

Lyndon was a journalist in the 1980s, writing for the "Atticus" column in The Sunday Times, as well as for The Times, The Independent, the Evening Standard and others. He wrote columns, profiles and feature articles covering a wide variety of issues such as politics, sport, music and books[15] Lyndon also make television appearances, including as a guest on a famous episode of Channel Four show After Dark.[16]

On gender issuesEdit

Lyndon first focused on gender issues in a 1990 essay for The Sunday Times Magazine entitled "Badmouthing". The 5,000-word piece argued that, in advertising, entertainment, the news media, family law, education and health research, "an atmosphere of intolerance surrounded men", blaming this intolerance on "the universal dominance of feminism".[12] Lyndon concluded the piece stating:

"If relations between men, women and children are to improve, attitudes to men and manhood must change. It wouldn’t be a bad start if men caused to be the butt of casual prejudice expressed in half-witted habits of speech. But the most important job our legislators face must be to remove some of the systemic disadvantages of life for men to improve their position within the family and within society at large. There is one sense in which men, as a group and a whole, can be described as a class in Britain: in a host of vital ways they second class citizens."

It later emerged that female writers at The Times had allegedly made an unsuccessful attempt to have Lyndon's article censored, so the women instead wrote a derogatory article about Lyndon in the Sunday Times Magazine's "Style" section.[17]

No More Sex WarEdit

The following year he wrote his book, No More Sex War: The Failures of Feminism,[18] published in 1992, in which he expanded on these arguments.


The work received a large amount of attention in the media,[19] some of it hostile and abusive, vilifying Lyndon.[20]

Rather than addressing the issues and arguments raised by Lyndon, many critics instead chose to make verbal personal attacks. They suggested he was sexually inadequate, questioned the size of his penis, his masculinity, his ability to attract women and even the smell of his breath.[20] Almost two decades later feminist writer Julie Burchill continued the verbal personal attack, suggesting he was a "sad-sack" and "the opposite of a man".[21] According to Lyndon, in one review of books of the year, Helena Kennedy refused to even discuss the publication, simply instructing people not to buy it.[20]


The book sold few copies and Lyndon's work in journalism dried up. In August 1992 he was declared bankrupt.[22] Before the publication of No More Sex War, Lyndon's marriage had broken up and his wife had taken their child to Scotland where, according to Lyndon, she obtained an order of custody without Lyndon knowing the case was being heard.[12] Also according to Lyndon, in the subsequent divorce, his media notoriety was used against him in court, and he lost all access to his son. He rebuilt his career in journalism during the 1990s, and was later reunited with his son, who lived with him in Scotland before going to university.[13] Lyndon also claimed he was assaulted at Heathrow Airport because of his book.[20] He claimed in 2000 that at Cambridge University, his alma mater, a president of Cambridge Union encouraged members to burn his writings, and that a university don told her students that she would like to see him shot.[15][23]

Eight years after the controversy, Lyndon revisited some of the issues in his book and discussed his story. He highlighted the issues in relation to "the treatment of dissidents in what is supposed to be an open society". Whilst not comparing his plight to the coetaneous case of Salman Rushdie, he suggested it was "paradoxical that many of the people who defended Rushdie's right to write whatever he wanted should be so censorious and destructive about wanting to limit my freedom to do the same".[20]

Personal lifeEdit

Lyndon married his first wife Monica Foot in 1971 and they divorced five years later. He married his second wife Deirdre in 1977[24] with whom he had a son and gained a step-son.[25] Following his separation from Deirdre she abducted his son and took him to Scotland and he was denied access to his child for two and a half years. Eventually, at age 15, Lyndon's son ran away from his alcoholic mother to live with his father[26]

He married his third wife Linda, a teacher[citation needed]. They have two daughters and live in Fife, Scotland.[27][28]


  • No More Sex War: The failures of feminism, by Neil Lyndon, 1992, Sinclair-Stevenson Ltd ISBN 978-1-85619-191-3
  • A Boyhood in the Weald, by Neil Lyndon, 1998, Pomegranate Press ISBN 978-0-9519876-8-1
  • Sexual Impolitics: Heresies on sex, gender and feminism, 2014
  • Men of Respect (formerly Hail to the Chief), a musical about America between the inaugurations of John Kennedy and Richard Nixon, co-written by Lyndon.[29]

See alsoEdit


  1. ^ Lyndon, Neil (10 May 2016). "From Trump to Ranieri: is this the era of the older man?". Retrieved 19 October 2017.
  2. ^ "Old Collyerians Newsletter" (PDF). 1999. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
  3. ^ Neil Lyndon 22 years on, I'm republishing my controversial book on the failings of feminism.. Daily Telegraph, 10 November 2014.
  4. ^ Neil Lyndon Spending to save with Audi. Daily Telegraph, 10 November 2011.
  5. ^ Neil Lyndon (1998) A Boyhood in the Weald
  6. ^ My #metoo story shows that men are the victims as well as the culprits
  7. ^ "Origins of the School". Retrieved 19 October 2017.; Lyndon, Neil (3 June 2014). "Boys need help to break the cycle of crime". Retrieved 19 October 2017.
  8. ^ Lyndon, Neil (21 April 2019). "Finding honey in the shitstorm: personal crisis, faith, and mental health". Male Psychology Network. By the age of 16, I was carrying a membership card for the Young Communist League, though I never actually signed it.
  9. ^ "Queens' College: 1968-1969" (PDF). Retrieved 19 October 2017.
  10. ^ Neil Lyndon That Summer: The hitch-hiker's guide to the fallacy: Seduced by his friends' tales of laughing peasants and lively girls, Neil Lyndon hit the road for the summer of love. The road it back. The Independent, 20 August 1994.
  11. ^ Fountain, Nigel (1 January 1988). "Underground: The London Alternative Press, 1966-74". Routledge – via Google Books.
  12. ^ a b c Neil Lyndon, "The return of the heretic", The Sunday Times, 3 December 2000
  13. ^ a b Neil Lyndon, "I was stupid too – but at least I admit it, comrade", The Times, 28 October 2007
  14. ^
  15. ^ a b Neil Lyndon The return of the heretic. originally published in The Times, 3 December 2000. archived at Fathers Are Capable Too.
  16. ^ Murray, Scott (16 June 2009). "Joy of Six: Broadcasting under the influence - Scott Murray". Retrieved 19 October 2017.
  17. ^ London Charivari, (Punch), Volume 300, 1991
  18. ^ Lyndon, Neil (13 September 1992). "No More Sex War: The Failures of Feminism". Sinclair-Stevenson – via Google Books.
  19. ^ Christina Hardyment, "Book Review: A wounded Apollo lashes back: No more Sex War – Neil Lyndon", The Independent, 3 October 1992
  20. ^ a b c d e White, Jim (15 December 2000). "Neil Lyndon takes on the feminists". Retrieved 19 October 2017.
  21. ^ Bindel, Julie (12 May 2009). "Julie Bindel talks to fellow feminist Julie Burchill about marriage, militancy and men's lib". Retrieved 19 October 2017.
  22. ^ Jim White, "Back in the fray", The Guardian, 15 December 2000
  23. ^ "Mens' champion admits he has lost the sex war". 11 July 1999. Archived from the original on 8 September 2017. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
  24. ^ "The return of the heretic". Retrieved 19 October 2017.
  25. ^ "Who's Who in the Sex War: A guide to the seminal - or rather ovular -". 27 September 1992. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
  26. ^ Lyndon, Neil (17 December 2014). "I know how 'Kafkaesque' the Family Court can be". Retrieved 19 October 2017.
  27. ^ Lyndon, Neil (12 July 2010). "VW California campervan put to the test". Retrieved 19 October 2017.
  28. ^ "Am I completely mad?". Archived from the original on 24 September 2009. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
  29. ^ "Neil Lyndon's contributor profile at The First Post". Archived from the original on 1 January 2011. Retrieved 18 October 2010.CS1 maint: BOT: original-url status unknown (link)